In order to make Positive Active Rules for a child with specific behavioral concerns we would first list out the observable behaviors. Then list out the desired behavior accordingly which is usually the opposite of the problem behavior. Then write the traditional rules that often are telling a child what they cannot do. Lastly rewrite the words telling the child what they can do.
Problem Behaviors
Boss Others
Insult
Curse
Fight
Hit
Desired Behaviors
Leader
Listener
Request
Caretaker
Polite
Proper Words
Help
Traditional Rules
- Do not boss others
- Follow requests of BT
- Be polite
- No cursing or insulting
- No hitting or fighting
Positive Active Rules
- Be a kind leader and a listener
- Follow requests of caretakers
- Be polite to others
- Say proper and kind words
- Help others